女生之不好长寿
昨日和某女生闲谈的时候,提到她只想活到40岁就够了,这样的话虽然不是第一次听到,却还是很震惊。不知道是想保留青春的美丽还是心理上如此考虑的。对她们的想法一直不感苟同,年轻有年轻的美丽,年老有年老的成熟,不要因为青春已去,就觉得生活之无意义。
近年来,大学生的非正常死亡率成上升趋势,我觉得这很大原因还是心理上的问题,国内心理上的辅导实在是太少了。这样说吧,99%的大学生或多或少都有心理问题,包括我自己也是,很多时候我们都得不到一个正确的引导。
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昨日和某女生闲谈的时候,提到她只想活到40岁就够了,这样的话虽然不是第一次听到,却还是很震惊。不知道是想保留青春的美丽还是心理上如此考虑的。对她们的想法一直不感苟同,年轻有年轻的美丽,年老有年老的成熟,不要因为青春已去,就觉得生活之无意义。
近年来,大学生的非正常死亡率成上升趋势,我觉得这很大原因还是心理上的问题,国内心理上的辅导实在是太少了。这样说吧,99%的大学生或多或少都有心理问题,包括我自己也是,很多时候我们都得不到一个正确的引导。